Oh I know I am going to let myself in for a LOT of grief on this one but sooner or later I have to let it out.
Gay couples adopting children… good or bad.?
Want my opinion.? Well tough, it is my website after all so here goes…
I am not homophobic, let me say that before we go anywhere. I have no problem with gay people be they female or male, nor do I have any worries about standing next to a gay man in a club whilst taking a slash, if he has a reason to have a look then I couldn’t give a toss. On the subject of gay marriage then what ever governs your motor, pal. You wanting to shack up with another man is fine, I just personally couldn’t cope with all that ironing.!
But (There is always a but isn’t there.?).
When it comes to the life of a child growing up with two men or two women then I have a problem. It is like people who pierce their childs ears when they are aged one. It doesn’t seem like a very fair situation and, dare I say it, it is unnatural. Now for goodness sake don’t go off on one at me about “humans not being the only form of life on earth that doesn’t do the homo-love thang” because I know. I have seen the film, watched the Ricky Gervais animal video and I am clever enough to see stuff with my own eyes. In nature there is an amount of homosexuality, which is fair enough, although it should be pointed out that in certain lower form species it is purely based around confusion rather than “doing it for the fun of it”. The thing is, out there in the great outdoors, there are no adoption agencies, there are no groups to help your average gay Kangeroo couple find a child to love as their own.
On this earth we are designed for a reason, god knows why (not that there is one), but we are here to live, continue our race and that’s about it. Call me a traditional old fool (audience – you are a fool) but I think a child should be brought up with both a male and a female parent, yes both of them, a necessary degree of discipline (especially involving the word NO used frequently) and that is where the whole “gay adoption” thing falls down.
By all means do what you want in this world, get married, grow old together, whether man and woman, man and man, woman and woman or even if you are in love with a goat from Newcastle. But, if you do start out in a same sex relationship, please don’t expect kids. You aren’t meant to have them, nature doesn’t equip you to do so.
But then again… from a moralistic view is it so bad that a child who has no family can be taken into a loving relationship and helped along despite the same sex parents. Well not at all… but this is purely meant to be a look at the natural forces of man and beast and not the moral value “look at the world through their eyes” side. This is all my own opinion and I am sure you have your’s… so tell me what you think.
Sorry.!
Sorry disagree!! For a start there are adoption agenices out there that help gays adopt. I know of two gay men that have been together for over 10 years and they have two children, 6 year old and 2 year old, both kids were adopted from birth cause the mothers didnt want them! and those children are more disciplined, loved and cared for then man and women parent familys i know of!
Nature sometimes dont equip a man and women to have a child together, so cant they some how have children either then? At the end of the day if two people are in a loving relationship if thats man and man, women and women or man and women they can rise and love a child in the same way as each other. And when the child of a gay couple goes to school that child should be proud thats it has two loving parents.
Sorry I also have to disagree. My reasoning is that a committed couple, be they homo or hetero, will give the care because they chose to adopt. The homes, these ‘unwanted’ children have to survive in, leave them open to buggery on pre adolescents, beatings, other physical abuse, and vitriolic verbal abuse because they had the nerve to be born!, and other things of a nice friendly nature that so called godly persons pretend don’t happen. These lovely things happen and destroy childrens lives for eternity. Have you not seen the constant news of yet another priest, (sometimes even a nun), who whilst in control of a care home, is charged with indecent behaviour spanning many many years, and only because we do talk Slightly more openly, and the children are now adults do we get to see how widespread this malignancy is. This behaviour has been going on since RC celibacy came into fashion! [ don't get me started on boarding schools] There is a difference between someone who cares and someone who believes it is their right.
You are correct in your expectation of grief. But you do have Your right to an opinion I just happen not to agree with some of it however well intentioned.
Update your blog pencil boy!
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